Nollywood actress Toyin Adegbola, popularly known as Toyin Tomato, gave married women dating advise in a recent remark. She encouraged women to stay in their marriages despite whatever issues they may be having with their spouses.
According to Toyin, women shouldn't think of leaving their marital home, even if their husbands behave in an unsettling way. She explained that such decisions could lead to complications later, especially when their children have important events, as men often insist their wives be present.
Toyin cautioned further that ending a marriage could make it difficult for the woman to find a new relationship and might even cause other problems, such as potential infidelity. She counseled women to remain in their married residences and exercise prudent situational judgment. She said that women should take proactive steps to protect themselves while preserving their marriages by sharing anecdotal evidence of a friend who gives her husband condoms when he travels.
Toyin also urged men to regard their wives as their "firstborn," in line with the way that women frequently regard their husbands. She pointed out that while men think they are wise, they are actually quite gullible when it comes to relationships, thus it is important for women to handle their marriages with patience and intellect.